Anyone else have the problem of socially awkward friends?

I have a fair few friends.....but the problem is that they are so socially awkward! Not all of them but they never want to go anywhere do anything cos they are worried about what everyone thinks of them. Drives me mad and restricts me from going out as much as i would like to. I need to overcome this issue and meet more social people that enjoy going out i dont want to get rid of my older friends it would just be nice to get out there more often and meet new people- anyone else ever have this ? if so how did you go about meeting more social people

Depression and creativity?

I dont think there are factors which determine or not whether your meant to be an artist. Maybe your depressed because your artwork isn't very popular- or you have run out of ideas? Never be put off by these kinds of things. Some of the greatest artists in the past were some of the most depressed artists alive, as you said. I am not suggesting you need to be depressed to be a great artist- maybe just try and accept life and take what it throws at you happily. Take opportunities and meet new people. There is no need to engage with a battle within yourself- a 'fight' as you phrase it. Just accept yourself and get out more, and you will fight it without realising.

DNA Altercations from animals......?

Uh, no... Chameleons can change their color because their body reacts to their surroundings and produces melanin that changes the color of their skin. It's a defense mechanism brought over through many (read: shitton) years of evolution. Humans will never evolve this way, because we don't -need- such a defense to protect us from predators.

Does anyone know any dealerships in Utah that will let me trade in my car but go through my bank to finance it?

I finance my car currently through deseret first and i want to keep my good interest rates. Also, what are some tricks that the dealers are going to try to pull that i can overcome

Why do I only get 5 clear channels on my Panasonic plasma TV with an indoor antenna?

I recently hooked up an indoor antenna to my Panasonic plasma tv. I bought the antenna from best buy, was told I should be able to get clear channels but I only get channels 2, 7, 9, 11, and 13, anything higher is broken or frozen. I tried moving the antenna and rescanning channels on my TV. Do I need a converter box or will this be a waster as well? Any information will be greatly appreciated.

Estimate angle of incline. Physics help?

A 63 kg person expends 400 W when walking on a level treadmill at a speed of 10.8 km/h. When the treadmill is inclined without changing the speed, the person’s expended power increases to 600 W. Estimate the angle of incline by assuming that all of the increased power output goes into overcoming the force of gravity.

I have Vasovagal Trypanophobia, any tips?

therapy maybe, you just have to accept that your body is a big sack of fluids held upright by bones, things go in and things go out, one way or another

Do you think its possible for people to have superhuman powers or abilities?

im not talking like people lifting cars off of someone because of adrenaline. like in comic books or movies. any kind of power. read minds, move objects with thought, predict future, rapid healing, strength, flight. it sounds crazy but the other day after watching a tv show i just thought people are born with mutations. messed up arms or legs, mental retardation, diseases, etc. why couldnt someone be born with a mutation that allowed them to do something extrodinary? or be exposed to some sort of radiation and their body be able to take it and it mutated them somehow? idk what do you think? i could see that in the future something like this could happen

I'm afraid I won't find friends who think like I do?

Well I'm not atheist, but I do have the other things. I find it very hard to find people in general that understand any of those. It's hard, basically I live inside my head.Besides a few close people. It's hard for people to understand. Maybe join an online group. I don't really know of anything else. People are cruel nowadays. Hope this helps

So I led someone on unintentially and now I feel really bad about it? :/?

So I asked a question a few days ago saying about this guy liking me but he was two years younger than me so I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship which I wasnt. Last night when I was walking my dog on the field this guy text me and was like 'Hey, wanna meet up and just hang out for abit? xx' I was like 'Yeah sure?' So we met up and just sat down for abit. I had had a really bad day anyway due to the fact my ex is gonna make the biggest mistake of his life by getting back with his ex girlfriend that cheated on him, twice. Anyway without realizing I started crying infront of him and he was like 'What's up? You can tell me anything you know' And I was like 'But what I say to you might hurt you and I'm sick of hurting people all the time' And he was like 'Whatever you say to me wont hurt me one bit, I just want you to be happy and I want to try and make you happy but I cant do that because you wont let me try..' And he kissed me and without thinking I kissed him back then regretted it afterwards and he then told me he loved me.. And I was like 'Look, the reason I said I'm not ready for a relationship is because I can't be with somebody who I have no feelings for whatsoever and someone who is younger than me.. You can find someone better that would treat you right, I didn't mean to make you think that I liked you when I didn't :/ I just wanted us to be friends because I am still in love with my ex and I can't help my feelings :/' And this guy was like 'I understand, I just want what's best for you, I don't like seeing you get hurt and whatever happens I'm always gonna be here for you and be friends with you.. I started liking you because of how nice you was too me and not many girls are like that to me tbh.. Also your personality is amazing.. But I understand that you don't wanna be with me.' After this he walked me home, hugged me and tried to kiss me again yet I stopped him.. I just feel really bad for leading him on when I didn't even mean too :/.. How can I overcome this feeling of feeling bad about what happened and just move on??

List three possible sources of error in conservation in linear momentum experiment.Can some help me with this?

Discuss these errors and comment on which of them could be most significant to the experimental results. Give suggestions to overcome each error.

Native American History?

Trace the changing fortunes of tribal sovereignty from the 1880s through the 1970s. To what extent were Indian nations able to escape colonialism and exercise self-government during this period? What obstacles did they face on the road to self-determination, and how successful were they in overcoming those? Did all Indians define "self-determination" in the same terms?

How should we consider the theories of science in matters of faith?

Change is measured by taking DNA samples from organisms from the past and today. Genetic mutation is needed to survive. Lets say a bird kept on eating a specific insect. The insect was about to extinct, but then mother nature thought why don't I give this insect a shape of a leaf. The bird couldn't catch the insect easily, because the insect lived in a forest. You know forest have a lot of leafs. So, the bird couldn't tell which one was the insect. The insect lived happily ever after.

Will adding Goldfish to a tank of Pleco and Platy harm any of the fish?

I have a small plecostomus, three Platys, and I don't use a filter. I just change the water regularly. Yesterday, my sister gave me her four Goldfish. I know goldfish are heavy wasters since they dont have a stomach, and that will complicate having no filter, what else I have to do in order to keep all of the fish?

PLease help...I am heart broken ...?

I think it's best if you don't stay friends, esp if you are both married.. I know that's hard, I've been in a similar boat as yours, but I believe that's for the best. :) hope it helps ....

8GB ipod storage? not adding up...?

I have an 8 GB ipod nano, and from what I've gathered it should be able to hold about 2000 songs give or take. Supposedly on average 1 GB holds 200-300 songs. Now most of my songs are the regular 3.5 min to 4 min songs, but right now i have about 800 songs with 5 GB taken up... So if I say 200 songs per GB, I should still have room for 200 songs with the 5 GB. I was wondering if anyone had ideas about this? Would having artwork be a huge factor? Also I do have lyrics in SOME songs (maybe 20), would that be another huge memory-waster?

What are the advantages of sexual reproduction and meosis and the importance of crossing over? (and mutations)?

I had the same question haha! The answer is so that there is more genetic diversity within the species! Hope that helps :D

Budgie Genetics & Plumage Mutations Experts?

A budgie can carry yellowface without it being visible, just as they can carry opaline, cinnamon, ino and many other mutations. And yes your hen is split for blue. A green budgie who normally has a yellow head anyway can also carry it. Because its a green budgie you wont be able to tell.

Why would a Christian God create something like Adam and Eve and then set them up for failure?

He gave them free will and let them choose, much like a parent must let their kids make their own choices and mistakes in growing up. When my child makes an error in judgment I do not stop loving them, i offer a solution and a helping hand. They do not have to accept my help. They can reject me. But I love them and so let them find their own way even though I have the means to make their lives so much easier. If you had children you might understand.

Who are some of the celebrities, leaders, writers and other successful people who overcame depression?

My mother had major depression following a car accident and health crisis a few years ago and it worsened last year when she had my baby sister. I'd just like some inspiration. Can you please tell me about successful people who had serious depression but overcame it and led positive lives? I know of people like Virginia Woolf and Sylvia Plath who killed themselves because of depression and other mental issues, but I need to know about people who can give me a little more hope.

Can you describe the mechanism by sin increased the number of baby quolls born in one litter?

If anyone takes the account of Creation literally, they are RETARDED. Sin took millions of years to develop.

Why is an omnipotent God stating flawed points through his word of the Bible?

So, like Creationists, you think God actually dictated the bible in it's present form? Man, I haven't see much evidence of the more intelligent, more logical, better educated type that atheists insist they are, but this really takes the prize! Even I, a believer, don't believe God actually wrote the bible--or had it dictated.

Why do people who live in areas where wild hogs are found still buy and eat domestic pigs?

It seems like a MAJOR money waster to go out of your way to buy pork when there are thousands running around and destroying the forests near your home. What do you think?

I'm become unstable and tentatively suicidal over my LGBT and other issues.?

I'm so sorry for your troubles. Seek a therapist to help you through this. And concentrate on your happiness. Don't listen to your parents until they learn to be more accepting.

Can anyone share their weight loss tips?

I'm a 22 year old guy... and I've been in your position before. I found it extremely rewarding to sleep early, wake up before sunrise, drink a glass of cold water and immediately exercise for 30 mins. Eat breakfast at that point... fruit is important in the morning... so are eggs. Oat meal is great before the afternoon workout. Eating your last meal before 7 p.m. is one trick that worked for me.

How come I can't get over and stop being sad that my closest friend who is a girl got married?

I have a friend that I've known for about 5 years and I used to have a crush on her but it faded away about a year and a half ago. Then today I saw her uncle at his sandwich shop and he told me that she got married and I did feel a little sad and disappointed. I lost contact with her about 6 months ago after she changed her number and never told me her new number. She is only 19 and she is married and I'm 20 and never had a girlfriend because I cannot get a girlfriend. What can I do to overcome this ??? It's not an extreme sadness that is driving me to extreme depression but it does make me feel a little depressed. I just lost a close friend because she is married now and also lost contact with her as well. Her uncle did not tell me her new number, it seems like he didn't want me to know it.

Help for Biology :)))))))))) pleasee?

wow. Did you seriously just take a whole homework sheet and copy it down here so other people will do it for you?

I really need help about this..?

Don't put up with that kind of crap from your dad. If your mom is excited to have you move back in with her then do it. You'll feel better and maybe your dad will get the message and clean up his act, if not it's his loss. No one has the right to make anyone feel like they're unwanted.

The feeling when you have a crush...?

Do you ever get the feeling when you have a crush that doesn't like you back. But every time you think they look at you, for some reason you think they're into you when they're totally not? How can I overcome this... I'm getting miserable because of it. We're not even friends... nor will he ever notice me.

How to overcome my fear of death PLEASE HELP?

i have posted a few questions here an yahoo answers regarding this fear i have of dying and there being nothing after for eternity, but none of the answers have really done it for me. I am 16 and was born into a christian family and attended christian school, and had no worry about where i would end up after i die. i remember one day in 8th grade i thought what if we get bored in heaven? what do we do after doing every possible thing there is to do? this was not a problem until i began to think that there could just be nothing after death. the thought of having nothing ahead of me nothing. nothing to look forward to, and more importantly nothing i can do to avoid this. this thought used to only come in small amounts until one night about a month ago. after this nights ive been having anxiety attacks a lot throughout my days. it has become an obsessive thought to the highest degree i have experienced. I now have thoughts that everything is meaningless, and it is hard to find motivation when i realize that nothing i do can avoid death. my life will become an infinitely small blip on the timeline of my existence. there are ties when i can believe in my religion ore cope with this, but I really need more than just "the Bible says..." I wish there was some kind of proof that there is something after. Its getting to the point that I am considering seeing someone or getting some kind of medication. I really feel hopeless and out of options

I don't feel comfortable in my own skin?

I always feel numb, and then waves of numbness overcome my body even worse and get these 'spasms'... it's weird. And I always feel itching under my skin like I'm trying to break out of it. I always feel tired and time seems to be moving so fast. Sometimes I just want to get in a car and go 100 mph and keep going till I can't go no more. I even wanna just leave everything behind and travel across the US on foot because I just want to get away from it all. what's wrong with me?? Help!!

Why does my dad hate me ?

seeing at your case I would say your father is still struggling to come in terms of your moms death. Its not you but him who neds love and support. talk to him into seeing a counsellor. parents love their children no matter what. I cant think of any other reason why your father can act in such a way.

My lamp says I need a 300 Watt or less, 120 V, Type T bulb, should I get a new lamp or what?

good lord....300W bulb? are you trying to install a parking lot light in your house? even a 120w bulb is way more than enough id say.

Where should this story go?

I like the second suggestion. I think a good twist would keep people interested. Give the readers small hints of the twist, bit by bit. separate them until one of the characters figures out the twist.

I have insecurities with my gf I dont want to shes never giving me a reason to be that way my ex messed me up ?

How do I overcome them I want to be with her I want to keep her as my gf I cant lose her I messed up three times not cheating thats not me I got all upset a few times by my brain thinking she was with another guy and she wasnt please help me I want to make things better I told her I will get over them the best way I can I believe I can do it she dosent n it hurts wen she dont believe me

If your taller than your Dad, where did you get your height from...still Dad?

I'm just wondering because im 6'2" and my Dad is around 5'11 ish, now before when people used to say "whoa where did you get your height from" i'd say my Dad until someone said "but your taller than your Dad", now im thinking if your taller than your Dad where did you get your height from? Could you still have got it from your Dad if your taller than him? My mum is around 5'4 and my sister is 5'11, also i know not all kids are exactly the same size as there parents, in fact that's rare, in a family of alot of kids the girls are never really always the same height as the mum and the boys the Dad, sometimes they can be taller or shorter that each parent, so where do they get there height, could it be a genetic mutation or is it just genetics i guess?

How can me and my spouse agree on money?

Debtors Anonymous website and meetings. Spending recklessly and out of control is like alcohol for him. You can't change him, Only he can change himself. He has low self esteem under it all and wants to make believe he is a millionaire. He needs a dose of reality, and he will crash, but that it what is necessary.

Most diversity has been achieved with mechanisms acting on mutations?

This is just me trying to confirm a fact. From the first multicellular life, are we to say that biological diversity has been achieved with mechanisms like natural selection and genetic drift acting on new mutations? Humans to ants; all the result of slight mutations accumulating over half a billion years?

My dog nurses on a teddy bear. Is this a sign of anything?

It's completely normal. There is no one cause for the behavior, but I've owned and worked with TONS of dogs who do this. My male Doberman makes me Doberlace from his blankets and "nurses" on all his stuffed toys. My female Pit does the same, we never leave important blankets, sheets etc. around her because she "nurses" holes all through them.

I hate Sixth Form and want to drop out?

Kinda same with me. I definitely chose the wrong subjects, ended up dropping one, leaving me with only 3 AS's which isn't good anyways, plus I HATEEEEEEE one of my subjects. The class, the teachers for it, the whole syllabus. Everything. I don't see the point in dropping out now though. It's just one more year of sixth form. This first year seems to have gone soooo fast, so next year should hopefully be about the same! Get the best grades you can get, try your hardest. Forget about the other people in your year, once you leave you'll most likely never see the majority of them ever again :D alternatively, move sixth forms or go to a college for year 13 :)

How were you able to stop watching TV or reduce drastically?

I think as we grow spiritually we lose interest in the tripe of the world. Music is is a great substitute for TV. However there are still some very worthwhile programs on the TV. The key to the whole thing is spiritual though.

Why are Conservatives the greatest Wasters of our resources?

Am I crazy? Doesn't conserve mean save? Why do these fat, smoking, spending people go by that word? Name a conservative that drives a prius and I will shut up. Just ONE!

RAMADAN: What types of clothing should we wear for prayers?

QURAN: 7:31] O Children of Adam! wear your beautiful apparel at every time and place of prayer: eat and drink: But waste not by excess, for Allah loveth not the wasters.

I'm stressing about university :/?

Everything you are thinking and feeling is perfectly natural and not uncommon. I would suggest speaking to your tutor in uni (do you have a personal tutor?) or one of the lecturers about how you feel. Maybe they can give you some suggestions about what you can do to help your grades or speak to you about whether you should continue. When it comes to your parents, I was in a similar situation when I trained as a teacher. I took 4 years to train (which they funded) then decided after a year I wanted to quit. I talked to mum about it and she was fine, she just wanted me to be happy in life. Don't feel like you're going to be a burden if you talk to your parents or girlfriend. I don't know your situation but I can imagine that they just want you to be happy. Try talking to them, it might help.

How do I overcome loneliness?

I am home from college and all of my friends have either left town or become bums and drug addicts.... so we don't hang out anymore. I left my boyfriend because things weren't working out, and my only friend is married and has a child so she can barely hang out with me. The only other people that talk to me are guys that wanna get in my pants, and I am incapable of getting physical without getting feelings, and they don't want anything but sex. I don't know what to do. I've been spending my summer getting tan, reading, and smoking weed. But I am so lonely, I don't know what to do with myself.

No more excuses for cheating?

THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO JUSTIFIABLE REASON TO CHEAT OR HURT SOMEONE. Especially someone you care about or love. It doesn't matter if you felt lonely, unappreciated, horny, simply it doesn't matter what you feel if you are in a committed relationship. I'm tired of hearing about people justifying their actions instead of working to overcome their mistakes. Lose your ego, admit fault, and overcome challenges. Work on your perception on why you wanted to be with the person you are with and not why it's okay for you to cheat on them. Committed relationships can be a beautiful thing that I see so many people wasting. If you don't want a committed relationship then don't find someone who does. There is no excuse to hurt someone, so why would you? even if they don't find out, you're betraying their trust and that hurts the relationship that was built on trust and love! No more boys will be boys, or I'm a man, get over it. NO MORE EXCUSES FOR NEITHER MEN NOR WOMEN. PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD. WE DESERVE LOVE, RESPECT AND COMMITMENT.

Help! What should I do?

Alright, here's the deal. I went to a soccer game with a friend and during that game I met a really lovely guy. He asked me to come back to watch the next one, but I was unfortunately too busy and couldn't make it. I'd like to go back to another game to possibly meet him again, but I have a bit of a problem. I don't really know anyone on the team, and my friend refuses to go back to watch another one with me because she thinks it's a waste of her time. Since my friend won't go with me, I worry that it would look too odd if this girl that nobody knows suddenly just shows up by herself. I do really enjoy watching games and am interested in playing, but am sort of a novice and couldn't really jump into it. Do you think I should bother going and possibly meeting that guy again? I worry that people would just think I was too strange for going by myself. I asked another friend and he just said that if anyone asks I should just tell them I'm just observing because I'm interested in playing. How lame is this? How can I overcome being so shy?

Do you like old fashioned baby names?

Yes, they're classy names! They sound great. I prefer classical boys names though. I like mos. Boyd names, very few girl names. So lets hope I have more sons that daughters! I love the nanes on your list and I also like Alistair & Elliot!

Am I crazy or do I see transverse waves in my guitar string?

Guitar strings produce longitude waves only but i see transverse waves in it!! Its like perfect pitch but its eyes instead of ears! I know I am not hallucinating because Ive been sleeping and I just noticed but its been probably goin on my whole life! Is it genetic mutations? Is it only me?

I have a problem in remembering what i have studied i forget it after few days.?

Well there is always the chance that you have attention deficit disorder. From what you've said it sounds quite possible. I suggest seeing a psychologist/psychiatrist for help with it. There are places on the internet you can go (just type it into google) that have techniques for helping memory. There is also the possibility that you really didn't care about those certain events, so your brain discarded them as insignificant.

University or college?

Since you are in the US you must know that we use these two terms interchangeably. Harvard College is a university. You must be asking if you should go to a Community College. If you have any reservations as you seem to have, that is a great step. However, if you intend to get a BA you will have to go to a 4 year college/university.

What are the wrong reasons to get in a relationship?

When i say wrong reasons, I mean wrong as in for example if a guy wants to be in a relationship just for sex, then its not real relationship. The whole thing is a complete time waster except for the sex of course. But the rest outside of sex of the time being spent on something fake. Just for the sex would seem like the top wrong reason, but i know theres got to be different reasons too. So what the other reasons? What if one is just getting in a relationship just for attention or he wants the girl to be all about him? Wrong reason? and if so, alittle explanation on that.

Can you move from england to ireland?

can you move from england to ireland without a visa? as family want to move to ireland as we are and irish family that live in england well im only half irish! serious answers please! no time wasters!

When watching Media Player TV, if you put the sound on mute during commercials,?

does the episode HAVE to start over -- as in there is no frickin' way to avoid commercials? If the answer is yes, I sure darn tootin' am taking that space-waster off my computer! I have just seen the same one minute 19 seconds over 5 times, just because I have turned off the volume during the ubiquitous commercials!

My asthma out of control :(?

My asthma was acting up really badly earlier this year. They had to see me to an allergist eventually. I stayed on coughing medicine for about 4 months. They also said it might have something to do with acid reflux even though I'd never shown any other signs of it, but since they put me on the medicine, I've been fine.

Pointe shoe prob! dancers plz help!?

okay so i have super super flat feet and im on pointe. i have to get the softest shank in my pointe shoes so i can actually go over on them, but my foot is soo strong that brand new pointe shoes are dead in just about two weeks.if i get a harder shank than i wont b able to go over on them. but if i keep them, itll bruise my toenails. i use european balance and the white toe pads with gel on one side and fabric on another (forgot what theyre called). do u think i should change pointes? or what can i do cause its a really big money waster to get pointe shoes twice a month?

What can i do?I feel like i hate my life?

Don't know what to do anymore i feel like i literally hate my life,I was diagnosed with agoraphobia/depression,because of this i feel that people are embarrassed of me i hardly get invited out so i sit in my room everyday doing nothing i can't even leave the house without having a panic attack or talk to anyone without having one,I've tried to get on medicine before but the doctor wouldn't give it to me because he says I'm to young and doesn't want to get me hooked on anything but that was like a year ago,so I've been asking my mom to take me back to try again because i don't want to be like this anymore but every time i ask she says she's busy that she can't do it,I'm starting to feel like she doesn't care,so what can i do to overcome this on my own?

Why does every story about important leaders end in betrayal?

People resent all of them. they cant help but feel jealous, and we never really know why they did it. everyone has their own views. and we can not predict who wold be the next victim or murderer.

Feeling depressed after losing gf and abortion?

been dating this girl for 1 year. she got pregnant and she wanted to get an abortion. I didn't want her to so I told her parents. Her parents contacted my parents and we all had a meeting. Everyone blamed me, my parents said if i call her or talk to her again they will call the cops on me and kick me out. and both families blamed me for everything. They said i wanted to kill her mom by stressing her out. moreover they accused me of some messed up things. I feel depressed because i lost the kid due to abortion, my parents are ashamed of me and I can't stand looking in there face because im so ashamed. I lost my gf because I'm not suppose to talk to her, but i know she still loves me but she wants to move on. I lost my friends. I feel trapped. I hurt not only my family but her family too which makes me feel so low. Not sure what to do. I feel like moving out of this death hole and just start fresh somewhere else w/o my parents. any idea how can I overcome this and feel good again. I can't stand the fact I'm a disappointment to everyone. we r both 25

Why do people say one thing and act another way?

That is because whoever you are trying to approach on intimate terms doesn't feel intimate towards you. You are making this person(s) feel uncomfortable. Obviously, the feelings are not mutual.

Can i get a stand in girl friend by tea-time on sunday?

Ok here's the deal,see basicly ive been living a lie for the past four years,my folks think im marraid to a lovely wholesome girl and extend me a comfortable living,the problem is im actually a total waster and **** all my inheritance against a wall each week. Im not even in a meaningfull relationship(ever),people say im very shallow and sister Emelda from first grade if your reading this im afraid all your worst fears have come through for me.....anyhow my folks have layed down the gauntlet and unless they get invited to tea this sunday,there going to cut off my inheritance. So thats where you come in,i need a stand in wife,notting heavy just for a couple of hours,im not fussy about age or looks,female or even a very convincing tranny between 18 and 80 would be good,english speaking would deffo be an advantage,under 26stone because mommy is gona wanna recreate the moment i carraid you over the treshold of our door on our wedding day,i got our wedding album story covered,an unfortunate incident with a nest of thermites means we dont actually have one. So what do you get in return.....humm,a bloody good laugh at my expence O and a recipe for jam scones would be good to.

Should we just leave her to it?

hiya, im sorry but there is nothing you can do to help your sister if she does not want your help,you have to let her do things her way,and her finding out about ever think her guy is doing behind her back will all come out in the end.it always does.your main worry is your niece,and the new baby when it comes.if you know there are drugs being used in the house were the kids are,then you need to tell the police or social services,its for the children's sake.also if he starts getting of his head on drink or drugs the kids are on high risk.that is all you can do.and hope he gets caught with drugs on him,he will go to jail,and that could wake your sister up,and she might not have him back.x

How come I can't get over and stop being sad that my closest friend who is a girl got married?

I have a friend that I've known for about 5 years and I used to have a crush on her but it faded away about a year and a half ago. Then today I saw her uncle at his sandwich shop and he told me that she got married and I did feel a little sad and disappointed. I lost contact with her about 6 months ago after she changed her number and never told me her new number. She is only 19 and she is married and I'm 20 and never had a girlfriend because I cannot get a girlfriend. What can I do to overcome this ??? It's not an extreme sadness that is driving me to extreme depression but it does make me feel a little depressed. I just lost a close friend because she is married now and also lost contact with her as well. Her uncle did not tell me her new number, it seems like he didn't want me to know it.

How to Help someone who is giving up Paxil?

My boyfriend decided to give up Paxil as he feel's they are not for him. He has been on 20mg of paxil for over 4 years and decided to slowly lower the dosage as directed and with stand the withdrawal symptoms. How can I help him deal with it? What are some tips that might be useful for me in dealing with someone giving up paxil. It is difficult at time's because he get very easily agitated and take it out on me. Sometimes he become very aggressive to the point that it's overwhelming and damages our relationship. We have been together for 8 years and I'm concern about the damage it might do to our relationship over a period of time. Once he has overcome the drug and the withdrawal symptoms... what is the best course of action? seek counseling. I have no doubt that we are probably going to need to re-train his behavior. Please give me whatever details you have if you are a person who's been through it or a couple who has undergone this process.

Do you like Polls or Surveys better?

You don't need to read the detail it is just a time waster I typed up because I was bored. Well if I say you don't need to read this you have to read it to know not to read it but it's whatever I guess. I'm just wasting more time by typing this. I'm just going to press submit.

How do you go about selling a house in a recession?if you have no money to move or put down on a house and?

need to sell first?I want to sell but i don't want to go through an estate agent how can i do it by myself?the problem is i have a lot of furniture and stuff i am in britain and want to move to australia.so i would be depending on money from a sale to make the move,however i wanted to get out first clear everything out and fix it up a bit then sell as the ideas of nosy people coming to look at your house just to get a look i mean the time wasters who have no interest in buying,you cant really be comfortable as they will always be expecting a show house and you wouldn't have any privacy in your own home,any ideas on how i can go about this effectively trying to sell a house in a recession,i know banks wont lend money but i see on the internet houses are selling all the time even expensive ones,and in nyc jennifer aniston just ourchased a 10 million apartment,i know exclusive places will always sell to those with money but how can an average house sell?,so how can you market effectively to prospect buyers,i just really am unhappy where i am and want to move thanks for your help

What dog should i get? 10 points best answer plz help?

I would say a German Shepherd. I have to laugh because i have a Shih Tzu and she can't stand yappy dogs either, she is 3 now. But anyways, we have a freind that owns a German Shepherd and my Shih Tzu just LOVES him. She is obbsessed with him when she goes over to see him, she licks his face a lot, it is too cute. And he is such a good dog, but he can kick some butt if he wanted to. And they are very smart so they are easy to train, just make sure to walk him.

University decisions...?

Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. I loved University, but it's a huge decision, big independent workload, and won't necessarily get you a better paid job. My friend who went from high school to a business training course is making a lot more money than me, and I'm doing my Phd. The only reason to go the strictly academic route is because you love your subject. Don't let anyone make you feel like you 'should' go to University - only go if it's what you really want.

Burning with dvd soft?

I have dvd soft on my pc. When i burn movies that i have copied from a dvd to my pc then converted it to .avi files, i play them on my dvd player and it comes up with unrecognised files, yet when i download .avi files and burn them to disk with dvd soft it plays on my dvd player with no problems at all. Anyone else had this problem? and how did you overcome it??

My kid's friend is a big waster and it's getting annoying. What should I do?

Don't you just hate that? Your kid is like an angel and their friend is terrible. You could only allow the kid over after lunch time, before dinner. Say its "family night" and you eat as a family. If they wine about not having enough food say finish that first and i will give you more then.

How come there are mutations in all cells but only specific cells are affected by them?

Those mutations are only observed if they occur in an ACTIVE part of the cell's DNA. If there's a mutation in the gene that produces insulin, you wouldn't expect to see its effects in a skin cell...

My 'friend' shops where i do whenever i go to a new store??? ANNOYING?

It doesnt matter where you buy clothes, being 'cool' isnt all that important. Buuut, try shopping at walmart, or telling her you do and then she will only buy walmart clothes or some other store that is 'uncool'. And then you could make walmart the cool place to buy clothes! or you could just be happy someone thinks your so awesome that they want to be you.

Addicted to World of Warcraft, longing to go back?

Go back if you can find a way to moderate your time. Set aside maybe 2-3 hours on weekends and don't play anymore than your set aside time. During the week don't spend more than 1:30 hours. My friend was an addict so I told him to do this. He built his weekend time down from 3 hours to 2 hours. During the Week he plays 1 hour. He leveled up to the highest level(I don't play) in 2 weeks.

I cant spend a day away from her, is this normal?

so i know this may sound weird but really its been 27 hours since i was last with my GF and i feel really depressed is this normal? and if so how can i overcome it?

Can i get some opinions on my latest short story (FIRST PARAGRAPHS)?

Wow I really think it's good. I like your story. I like your plot. You really described it well. I love all the words in it and I like how you make me want to read more. I really love it :)

I'm in grade 7 and i have to do a science project on how to save energy...heeelp!!! :(?

K, so i already have a power point done but i reeally want a very good mark so i was thinking about making a little card board house and having a bunch of seperate rooms in it. This house will be of major energy wasters like leaving lights on,leaving TV on...etc. Do you think that could get me a good mark? If you have any ideas then pleeease help!! thanks :)

Why are atheists so much into answering question even those that say 'Christians only'.?

It's a public forum; you don't get to stipulate that you will only accept comments from someone who shares your delusions. If you don't like a response, you can simply ignore it.

Will supersonic air travel ever come back?

I am talking large scale, like the Concorde was. I know that the Concorde was a big gas guzzler and money waster. But we now have technology, maybe we can make a more economical one.

People that have overcome challenges?

hmmm well, there are a lot of celebrites. all the ones who are gay or lesbian and had to come out with it.

Help me i have got a big nose and i hate my life....no girl will ever like me?

I feel like a disgrace to humanity, i cant look someone in the eyes properly because they might not take me seriously coz of my nose........i liked so many girls and some liked me too, but i was afraid to talk to them incase my nose would get in the way......you know this wasnt even suppose to happen, this nose was like a genetic mutation in the family...........plz tell me what to do? my dreams and hopes are being shattered and WILL A GIRL EVER ACCEPT ME?

Since albinoisim is considered to be a genetic mutation?

and since the the original man was black wouldn't that make white people mutants (since they are nothing more than modified albinos)...or is that to strong of a word?...also if god is a perfect god,Jesus being anything but black would be an imperfection..(for better words white skin would go against scripture..."without a spot are blemish" leprosy was a curse in the bible not the other way around)

Why do I have such a problem talking to people?

im not shy, at least i dont think i am. I just have real difficultly talking to people. expectantly new people. Its like we dont have anything in common with each other but how can that be possible with ever person that I've met? does any one have the same problem? if so, how did you overcome it? please help me. thanks

How do you overcome *endless* rejections and humiliations at job interviews?

Very often at job interviews the way you respond to questions is more important than the answer you give. When you get turned down, just tell yourself that it's their loss, they won't get anyone as good as you. Trust me it helps.

I can grasp natural selection, but how can it possibly lead to something like an EYE?

How does a random mutation occur that begins the path toward something like an eye evolving? I just don't understand how that's possible. What would the first-generation mutation that would lead eventually to an eye be?

Good resons to give a child mobile phone?

my parents wont let me have a phone untile im 17! what if theres an emergency! i tryed saving up but my parents took my mony and i think that thy still will! i think that after they see some good resons they might get me one! please NO TIME WASTERS!

How do I keep Rogue Anti-virus away?

go to start- click run- type msconfig- then press enter- u wil see a pop up box- click on the start up tab above- then select and deselect the programs u prefer- clik ok or apply- restart laptop

How do you learn how to live with being apart from your kids without going crazy missing them?

I don't actually have kids yet, but my mom has pretty severe depression and my dad travels a lot and so I've been taking care of my 13 month old sister since we brought her home from the hospital. People were actually shocked to find out she's my sister and I'm not a teen mom because pretty much every time I left the house I brought her with me. I went to school online and was home all day with her. I'm the one she wants when she's upset. I think she thinks I'm her mom too. My mom doesn't give her a lot of time or affection. I'm spending the summer with my grandparents and I'm thinking of staying here for my senior year of high school. We're Americans but my family moved to Australia for my dad's job a few years ago, and I've been miserable there. I really do feel like I'm going to go nuts here sometimes because I miss the baby so much. I worry about her all the time. I miss my other sister and my brother so much too it really hurts. I can't even sleep sometimes because I just miss them. I can't just go back. It's complicated. My grandparents said to not worry so much and enjoy the summer. They really want me to stay here with them till I graduate because they know how messed up my life has been in Australia because of my mom. I am happy here, much happier than I've been in years, but I miss my siblings so much I really don't know how to cope. I really do feel more like a parent than a sibling to them. I don't know how to overcome this.

What could be wrong that my period wont go away?

Hi guys, I have always had a very regular 28 day cycle no problems with my periods ever! Me and my partner are trying for a baby and I've been off the BC pill from September . They normally last for 5days between start and finish. It came as scheduled on the 11th March and started to go away again 4 days later then 2 days later came back heavier .Since then they have remained here sometimes heavy sometimes light also having light brown blood and little clots. I worried I was miscarrying so went to docs they performed a pregnancy test and it came back negative. She couldn't give me an answer to why my periods wont go away , they have been here from 11th March . I just wondered if anyone else had any ideas and have they went through this too. I'd appreciate honest answers and no time wasters please . thank you

Can a British citizen join the turkish navy easily?

Could I just move to Turkey and join straight away or would I have to do something first. No time wasters please, serious answers only!

Dieting on EGGS!?!?!?!?

There is probably no problem if you are tall and weigh around 200 lbs. For a smaller person, it might be too much saturated fat and cholesterol. By looking at this, it is as variation of a low carb diet. You will probably lose ten lbs. The problem is that the body will regain it within a few months, plus you eliminate too many food groups. It might be hard to evacuate waste products from your body. For further corroboration, run it by your physician.

HELP! ! ! What was that science fiction show or movie called where the starfighers looked like sharks?

3 is "Battle Beyond the Stars" see here a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0080421/" rel="nofollow"http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0080421//a

Tickets for sale: Liverpool v Spurs on 15th May 2011?

I have 2 PREMIER CLUB SEATING tickets for sale for the unmissable Liverpool v Spurs game! These are PREMIER CLUB SEATING tickets (this means they are the dogs balls!!!) I cannot attend as I have a business commitment (gutted!) Will have the tickets on Saturday 14th and will hand deliver in a central, public location in Liverpool early on Saturday morning. No time wasters! Will sell them together only - not sperately! They are top top tickets for this SOLD OUT game! Tickets cost 300 each (600 altogether) and are WELL WELL worth it!

Help with exercise please?

i am starting to exercise to overcome anxiety and panic disorder. but it does help when after about 2 minutes of jogging on the spot my heart is pounding fast and hard and can see through my chest.. i'd rather not have a heart attack so what can I do?!

Overcoming Seasonal allergic?

i was diagnose with seasonal allergic recently. this afternoon, the doctor told me that theres no way to prevent it. he said antibiotics and pain killers are the answer to oct to jan problem. does anyone have better doctor?

Are non-specific cancers hereditary?

My father has melanoma, my mother has thyroid cancer, and my brother has testicular cancer. Even though each of these cancers do not take the same form, does it stem from the same DNA mutation? Basically, are these episodes of cancer in my family related? And how at risk am I?

Why does God test us?

If there was no bad, there would be no good. Life would just be boring, and you wouldn't appreciate anything that you have.

Wrote this a while ago, any suggestions?

This is AMAZING!!! I don't think you should change anything. I like it just the way it is. It grabbed my attention from the beginning and I couldn't stop reading. Just be careful how much you post because this is great, and somebody else might try taking credit for it. Keep writing :) I can see a best selling book in the future :D

How can i get over my trust issues?

ok so i'll be a sophmore in highschool this year and i have some intense trust issues. i dont trust anyone, im afraid of loosing the ones i love, and i feel as if i push ppl away. i've had alot of loss in my life. both my grandparents died when i was in 4th and 5th grade, and that was hard cuz my family was always at thier house, and i miss how loving they were, and they cooked for us and stuff, and showed us how to play piano and being with them was a fun part of my childhood. that affected my mom cuz they were her parents and she devolped horrible depression and lost interest in doing things with me and my brothers and sisters, then my dad devolped cancer and he died when i was n 7th grade. i miss him so much, ik he didnt want to leave but it made my mom even more emotionally unstable and she gets mad at me and my siblings alot now cuz she doesnt have our dad to help out and she doesnt know how to dicipline my little sister and stuff so she just yells and then brings her trouble out on me and my older bro's and sis's, even over little things,like the house being a bit messy. i lost a boy i thought i loved in 6th grade cuz he moved schools and never talked to me again (he was my first kiss). then i got in a huge fight with my best friend in 8th grade and she never talks to me anymore even tho we grew up together. she became more popular then me and stopped inviteing me to her parties and to her house and stuff cuz i wasnt "cool" enough. then this year my 2 best friends were talking about me behind my back cuz i saw facebook messages they left up on the computer when i was at one of thier houses about how much of a dumb blonde i am, and how im supposivly "easy". and that im annoying and they cant wait for me to move to my new school this year. so i didnt confront them about it, rather i just never answered thier calls/texts/messages i just ignored them hoping they woudl know i was not going to be bossed around anymore. then i liked this guy this year and he liked me, we texted, skyped, and he carried my books for me to class. we almost dated, but his ex-gf decided to ruin that. she had a huge bday party, and invited liek everyone includding him except me. and she told me to back off. so i tried to but i liked him too much until i met this other guy at school who seemed funny and sweet. so i turned to him and his redneck friends instead cuz i felt like it woul never work with the other guy, and i told him i couldnt hang with him cuz i would be hanging out with this other dude. so i hing with the new guy and his friends, i didnt relize how much of a jerk he was tho, he would make-out with me then tell me im too innocent cuz i ddint want to go further with him then makeing out and stuff, then i was dumb and drank vodka with him and his friends one night, and my mom smelt it on me when i got home when i was drunk even tho i tried so hard to hide it, and she doesnt trust me anymore even tho i broke up with him. i got in the wrong crowd over holiday break and went to a few parties and thought those ppl were real friends, but they only hung with me if i would drink. i would met girls that i would think were my friends but they were just party girls and wouldnt talk to me if i didnt party. i met guys at these parties who would tell me they liked me n stuff but then id find out they had girlfriends. i dont have any cofidence now cuz i practically have no friends anymore, im trying to meet new ppl, i play summer sports and do summer tutoring, but i just new make a strong connection with anyone cuz i dont want to cuz i trust noone. and im going to a new school this year, i want it to be differnt and i wat to hang with ppl who liek me for me and not cuz i will drink with them or be a slut or anytihng. how can i overcome this and open up to ppl more? am i theo nly one who feels this way??

Why are some tigers white?

It is a mutation. There are also white bison, elephants and gorillas. I don't think white tigers are actually albinos. The ones I remember seeing had blue eyes. The eyes of albinos are pink. The white tiger simply lacks the genes for yellow fur. Tigers ambush prey by hiding in long grass and pouncing on the prey after it has walked past. They have yellow fur to match the color of dried grass. A white tiger would be more conspicuous and would have a harder time catching prey. This is why most tigers are not white.

What was your biggest waste of PPV Money?

Wrestlemania the only exiting match was hhh vs undertaker all the other matches were soo boring thry were ti quick

Which of the following types of genetic change is least likely to be found in an oncogene in a tumor?

Mutation in a promoter region because this may prevent oncogene activation, and a couple of oncogenes are generally activated (protooncogenes) in cancer cells.

How does this "God created evolution" thing work, exactly?

"doesn't it point to a cruel god, looking at the results of evolution" => either cruel, or a powerless God who cannot stop this brutality going on in the world. That's why you'll never hear me say God is loving + all powerful, cuz he just can't.

How can I help my best friend to improve her self esteem?

We've been friends for 15+ years and we've been through all sorts of things together. I used to have low self esteem, and for years I felt fat and ugly when I was not. Fortunately I overcame that, now truly I am happy with myself and I feel good about myself. My friend still is stuck in the rut.. she has lost a lot of weight lately and she looks great, she is a beautiful girl inside and out. But she doesn't feel it.. she wants to get breast implants when she has a nice set already, she always feels she is fat when she is not.. it's just terrible to see her feeling that way about herself. I have told her the truth, that she is beautiful and sexy and a great person, our other friend and I were both telling her that last night.. and she just can't see it herself. How can I show her? how can I help her believe in herself?

Social anxiety.. how can i slowly overcome it?

Im currently a senior and this year I got social anxiety due to a bad job experience but now i cant take it.. I feel like social anxiety is too much to bear and lately i feel im going crazy.. I currently divalproex. risperdone, and buspar but doubt buspar and risperdone is doin anything.. Also now im always more irritated, sensitive, and feel impatient all the time.. and just awkward with ppl i been also lately wanting to kill myself and not care.. im also worrying like crazy that im moving schools because now its harder 4 me to make friends.. i dunno how to continue plz help.. i want to overcome it and but sometimes i feel like im going nuts..

Do you think Malcolm X was good or bad?

The mainstream media makes it seem that MLK was the hero and Malcolm X was an instigator. But I have to argue. A lot of the time people overlooked his good things. Sure he was a racist at first, but people always overlook the good thing -- that he overcame that, and advocated forgiveness in the end. He truly had a change of heart, and he denounced the bad things about the Muslim religion, and the black racism. Right before his assassination, he met with Martin Luther King, who he previously denounced by saying, "While he was having a dream, we were having a nightmare."

In a substitution mutation, a ATA is changed to ATT what effect would this have on the resulting protein?

If this codon is in an translated region of the gene, and you are reading the coding in the direction of translation, both ATA and ATT code for isoleucine. So the protein would be pretty much the same.

What can I do to overcome my fear of rejection?

I think I might be suffering from an AvPD. I don't really have any friends who I actually trust, I have lived the most part of my life a loner and I have always been terrified by the prospect of any kind of rejection and I'm tired of it. I really like this girl and I really, really would like to ask her out but I can't bring myself to do it because I'm really scared she will say no. Is there anything I could do to make overcoming it easier?

Is it better to overcome your desires or to attack your desires?

Yes I agree with Aristotle. Because we are born in sin and our desires are carnal in nature. We must overcome certain desires which may be harmful to embrace. Proverbs 14:12 says there is a way that seems right to a man but the ends thereof is death.

Origin of the evolution of the sexes?

I know how evolution works, I just finished my first year of college majoring in it, but it still beats me how gender originated - I understand that natural selection would favor the offspring of two parents of different sexes because of mixing genes and other things, but I think too much would have to happen at the same time for gender to spark - a male of a species (or something similar to a male) could be born through mutation, but wouldnt something female-like have to be born at the same time and then mate with the male for it even to matter? Maybe I'm missing something. Any ideas?

How to use Manic Panic Virgin Snow toner?

It'd prolly be best to bleach it again. But I really like the Virgin Snow. It's always worked well when I've used it.

How can I overcome my desires and truly submit myself to ALLAH (s.w.t) ?

I am always thinking about sex whenever I see a hot girl in this hot weather I just want to *uck them but at the same time I dont want to do it how can I overcome my desires and just be a good muslim its so hard these days with girls are wearing in my neighborhood

How can I become Muslim ?

I've already asked this and got a wonderfull answer from 'jesse google'. If you are still there can you email me more details on how I an convert to Muslim? Help from others will be most welcome also. email address is jim.aldo@yahoo.co.uk. no time wasters please.

What was more amazingly funny to you in the movie Precious ???? (spoiler alert)?

ok!! when she stole fried chicken & got caught and ran as fast as her giant cankles would take her? Or after all her hard work and overcoming the obstacles in her life, her Dad gave her the aids?

Does anyone who know the cell cycle happen to know?

When DNA replication occurs a) whenever a cell makes protein b) to repair gene damage caused by a mutation c) when a cell uses ATP d) before a cell divides e) in the cytoplasm of a eucaryotic cell

I fancy my teacher, and feel really sorry for him, please answer this is my first question :') ?

have him alot, hes my science teacher and people are always naughty and noisy in his class like a boy in the class yesterday was answering back and the teacher shouted at him to get outand the boy swore at him and threw his pen accross the classroom, we then had to copy out of text books cos he couldn't be bothered to finish the lesson, he just can't handle it anymore and neither can I cos there are too many timewasters and I really wnat to get involved and sort it out, ok I jsut have to say this next bit: I fancy the teacher ok, and i'm stating to feel really sorry for him and want to help, but I don't wnat to ignore it and let it carry on cos he is 25, sort of new and may even end up quiting if this keeps happening, as it happens in nearly every lesson, but he can't take it, and neither can I :( please help, I want to help him ;( but I don't want to get involved too much cos it's his responsibilty to sort out the class and people in it which he isn't managign very well, but i mafraid he might just say i'm ok I can handle it, and he's not often in his classroom and has lessons and stuff so I dont no wat to do, i'm in year 7 bu the way :/ helpp (I fancy him so I find it hard to talk to him, thats why I feel really sorry for him and am too pissed off about the time wasters in the classes we have) At the moment he's been really moody, maybe because we are noisy and he's strict to us to make us learn a lesson, but I don't think he'd do that. i think it may be somethign personal, but I think he'd tell us taht something bad has happened and he's not in the mood for a few weeks, thats all but I tihnk it may be something really perosnal that is annoying him in some way, but I do not know this for sure, k help me please :)

Republicans, is someone who is willing to trim domestic spending ENOUGH of a fiscal conservative for you?

you are correct we need to trim everywhere, we do not need to be in three now four wars nor do we need to keep sending aid to those that clearly represent what we are not, there are many useless programs that need to be cut and by doing so maybe our children will not be far worse off than we are.

Whi isn't natural selection, genetic drift, mutation, and gene flow part of creationism?

Creationism is about those first six days, and usually includes the flood theory because the earth has obviously changed since then. The natural selection, genetic drift, mutation and gene flow we see today are understood to have been taking place for at least the few thousand years that the rate of our shrinking sun allows as reasonable, but that and the expanding orbit of the moon (reducing the tides), extrapolated backwards, simply does not allow enough time on a habitable earth for the introduction of new species.

Translation from English to Māori?

I would like to know, if possible, what: "Nothing overcomes a Mother's love" would be in the New Zealand Māori language??

Cartilage Piercing? 8 weeks ;D?

its been 8 weeks since i had my cartilage piercing done with a needle! ive been cleaning it twice a day with sea salt soak. because its been 8 weeks how often do i still have to clean it? &+ no time wasters thankyou.

How to overcome artistic Jealousy?

Are you sure you want to get over this? I know it's stressful, but it could well be the fire that pushes you towards some great artistic accomplishment.

How can i overcome my overwelming anxiety?

I have a very seriouse anxiety disorder how can overcome or reduce the effects of my condition as its interfers with my daily life.

Jailbreaking problems with my 2 gen?

I have an iPod touch 2 gen. It is running on 4.2.1 and I intended on jailbreaking it. I downloaded gp rc6 and followed all the steps and making sure I did nothing wrong. At the point of jailbreaking, my iPod white screened, but never started filling my screen with code. It stays white screened and then it says jailbreak failed so I unplug and hard reboot. I have also tried this with gp rc5_b2 and same problem occurs. Any suggestions on how to overcome this?

Is it time for Nick (Judas) Clegg (looser) to resign?

He is a Liability to the country and his Party. The UK has no not got the Luxury of listening to time wasters

Can i have some honest opinions on my latest short story (FIRST PARAGRAPHS)?

That was really well-written! I could totally envision the scene you were describing! It sounds intense so far, keep up the good work!

Any books on how to overcome fear of physical fighting?

hi im wondering is there any books that would help me get over the fear of confrontation and fear of fighting because iv always been so affraid to stand up too anyone that has insulted my wife and family im not a trouble maker or anything like that but there is times in life that where you have to stand up for yourself and if you have to fight you have too but i just cand seem to do this with fear ect , so can anyone tell me is what books are out there that can help me get rid of this fear as iv heard before from someone that there was but i cant remember the name of them , im in bad need of help here thanks for your time

Doctors comments on our records?

Can anyone give me some examples of the codes doctors use on our medical records, PTW for permanent time waster for example.

Internet dating, the real deal?

When I tried, I had very positive experiences. Every friend of mine who tried had positive experiences. Lots of good people out there in the same situation you are and need that avenue to meet people. Give it a try but maybe avoid the cheap or free sites. Lots of good looking and intelligent people at eharmony.

Would it look weird if I went by myself?

Alright, here's the deal. I went to a soccer game with a friend and during that game I met a really lovely guy. He asked me to come back to watch the next one, but I was unfortunately too busy and couldn't make it. I'd like to go back to another game to possibly meet him again, but I have a bit of a problem. I don't really know anyone on the team, and my friend refuses to go back to watch another one with me because she thinks it's a waste of her time. Since my friend won't go with me, I worry that it would look too odd if this girl that nobody knows suddenly just shows up by herself. I do really enjoy watching games and am interested in playing, but am sort of a novice and couldn't really jump into it. Do you think I should bother going and possibly meeting that guy again? I worry that people would just think I was too strange for going by myself. I asked another friend and he just said that if anyone asks I should just tell them I'm just observing because I'm interested in playing. How lame is this? How can I overcome being so shy?

My latest short story, can i have some opinions (FIRST PARAGRAPHS)?

You are telling the story and not showing the story. You should get inside the characters head, you use 'was' too much and it's off-putting.

If my dad has the MTHFR gene mutation and my mom doesn't (I probably am heterozygous for it) will it affect me?

If your father has the gene, and your mother dosen't, it's all up to chance really. It just depends on which set of genes you get, out of all the possibilities. It also depends on your grandparents... They might have carried the gene, and therfore might highten your chances of getting it. It's hard to give a really accurate guess, without knowing more imformation to set up a punnet square. Your doctor could probably do it for you.

Vauxhall Astra 1.6 Twinport 2004 Coil pack resistance.?

Can anyone tell me how to check the resistance on a Vauxhall Astra 1.6 twinport Mk4 1998 - 2004 coil pack. Which pins do I need to check across and what readings should I get. No time wasters please. Engine code is Z16XEP. Many thanks.

Did David Cameron insult Angela Eagle, by telling her to "Calm down, dear"?

I think so, myself, - just as he has INSULTED the Country, only STEALING power, by BRIBING that Liberal waster, Clegg.

IS 60% A MUST FOR GETTING RECRUITED IN MNC?

I HAVE GOT LESS THAN 60% IN MY SCHOOL BUT GOT DISTINCTION IN ENGINEERING BUT ALMOST ALL COMPANIES ARE NOT WILLING TO RECRUIT ME.IS THERE ANY SOLUTION TO OVERCOME THIS PROBLEM.PLS LET ME KNOW

Suggestion need to resolve and improve my self confidence...?

Well since your a GUY.. find a sport of a hobby that you are good at, one that you are better at then all of your piers and then you will slowly regain self confidence. get a girl friend change your look ..new hair style ..new clothes.. if you have glasses use contacts..if you have acne buy top dollar products to help ... hope this helps

Fixing gene mutations?

I'm writing a paper on the Monoamine Oxidase A gene mutation and I was wondering if its possible to fix a gene mutation. I'm pretty in the dark when it comes to genetics. If its possible what methods are available to "fix" a mutation.

What are Blue Lobsters?

I just read in the news about a blue lobster that was found in Canada and is very rare. How do lobsters become blue? Is it a genetic mutation or something? Please answer.

Budgeting advice? or Opinions :)?

Plastic pending or spending money that you don't have is the culprit. If you can only buy things with the money that you have, so will make things easier for yourselves.

Nirvana or Foo Fighters tattoo ideas?

I love Kurt. Nirvana and Foo fighters. And Pearl Jam. I think this is a huge decision, because ink is INK, I am 42 and have been trying for 3 years to decide what kind of tattoo to get, having only decided I wanted one. I think you should really think and wait for 6 months once you choose. get one henna tattooed and live with it for a week. Personally I like "Wanting to be someone else is a waster of the person you are-Kurt Cobain". Have you googled Nirvana tattoo images to see what others have? and remember if you tat your wrists it means you have to wear long sleeves in certain industries, maybe consider it on your shoulder or upper arm.

Poll: Is the Internet just a big waste of time?

I don't think it is. I say as long as you enjoy whatever it is you like doing then it's not a waste of time.

Why does my dad hate me?

you do not say how old you are but my suggestion is to get away from your father as soon as you can he is a control freak and not letting you grow up and know your own mind get away from hin as soon as you can

People who criticize evolution, a question for you?

I am aware of all of that, but generally don't get into evolution debates. I focus on abiogenesis seeing as there is absolutely no evidence for it, it has never been observed and it is required for evolution to begin.

How to overcome barriers with clients using older photo equiptment?

"I know my camera is older than some are using but I just don't make enough mistakes to justify the expense of a more forgiving model"

Could any English-French translators PLEASE HELP ME!?

L'ann�e derni�re, je suis all� avec ma famille dans le Lake District pour une activit� de vacances. Quand nous sommes arriv�s, nous avons �t� accueillis par un moniteur de voile appel� Paul, qui nous a emmen�s � bord de l'eau. Depuis que je suis jeune, je n'avais jamais aim� la mer parce que mon fr�re m'avait dit qu'il y avait des monstres l�-bas, alors j'ai jou� sports de balle � la place. Aujourd'hui, j'aime toujours jouer au hockey et au tennis, parce que je les joue avec mes amis � l'�cole. Le premier jour, malgr� mes craintes, je suis all� la voile avec mon p�re. Il �tait trop difficile pour moi au d�but, et je effleur� ma main sur les cordes, mais j'ai bien aim�. Ce fut une belle journ�e, mais une rafale de vent a frapp� �normes de notre bateau et frappa mon p�re sur le c�t�. C'�tait hilarant! Mon p�re �tait trop froid et grincheux pour faire autre chose, donc nous n'avons pas rejoindre mon fr�re et ma m�re, qui jouaient au tennis. Au lieu de cela, nous sommes all�s au buffet � l'h�tel. Il y avait beaucoup de nourriture sur des tables, et je remplis mon assiette tr�s �lev�! Le fruit �tait tr�s color� et un go�t d�licieux, mais la viande a �t� cuite et n'avait pas l'air sain parce qu'il �tait couvert de graisse. Heureusement, je suis v�g�tarienne et j'ai eu mes propres repas sp�ciaux. Tout au long de la semaine, nous sommes all�s le cano�, planche � voile et jet ski quand il n'�tait pas trop de vent. Ils �taient tous tr�s amusant et j'ai surmont� ma peur de la mer. Parce que j'avais l'habitude de nager quand j'�tais petite, j'�tais le meilleur de ma famille et j'ai pass� environ trois heures par jour � la piscine. J'ai appr�ci� la plupart des sports, mais mon sport favori �tait le jet ski, parce que j'�tais la seule personne dans ma famille qui n'est pas tomb� dans l'eau. Cependant, je n'aimais pas jouer � des jeux d'�quipe avec les autres enfants dans la soir�e. Moi et mon fr�re ont �t� les plus anciennes et les autres enfants �taient trop inexp�riment�s, et nous avons pens� que les activit�s �taient ennuyeux. L'ann�e prochaine, apr�s les jeux Olympiques, nous allons au pays de Galles pour l'�t�. Je voudrais essayer le surf alors que nous sommes en vacances, parce que mon fr�re est tr�s bon dans ce domaine. Si j'�tais meilleur au surf, j'ai pu impressionner tout le monde et il serait g�n�! Je voudrais �galement saisir un

Am i over exercising?

Im 14 5 8 139lbs ive lost 6pounds in a week & i was wondering if i over do it. i eat a fruit for breakfeast/water an hour later i run for 15min throug my neighbor hood and there are tons of hills & down hills i eat i have a waster/ham sandwhich whit some type of natural oat bread and a fruit/veggie sometimes veggie if have, 2hours later i run about 2-3miles on track have dinner normally healthy dinner veggies/fruit and water no soft drinks or juice. I was also wondering is fried chicken bad for me im just trying to get a flat stomach and im allready seeing big changes is losing 6lbs bad or good in a week? tthnx and tell me if im overdoing it or if my diet is good.

Anther thing how to overcome my shyness?

Just be open and dont care. I catch so much, for just being open and i dont even say anything. I just sit there pay attention, and for some odd reason these tree huggers think im screwing off. When im actually paying attention. anyways bye

Can an intelligent being design something more complex than itself?

If humanity was billions of years old, they wouldn't be driving cars or trying to blow themselves up.

Should I seek Professional help?

I've been depressed before, but I have recently overcome it (or so I think). I am now more capable of having fund day to day and I stopped stressing about schoolwork, but now that schools out I've been having some problems. Last summer I spent a lot of time alone and it was very therapeutic for me, but its not having the same effects now. Sometimes when I am alone I have these like mini panic attacks or something. I sit in the middle of a room in the fetal position and just cry into a pillow (so that my family won't hear) for what seems like hours but is really only between 20 and 45 minutes and I feel like my world is collapsing on to me. I just get really scared that I'll never have fun, I'll just live at my parents house for the rest of my life, never go to college, no one will ever love me, I'll somehow remain a teenager forever, and my life will remain monotonous and the boring. This is really strange I think because logically this doesn't make sense. I have nearly straight A's and a 2200 SAT score. I just have this really strong want to be an adult and I don't know why because you're supposed to love being a kid. I just all of a sudden get really scared and I can't move and I just feel like screaming. Sometimes I feel theses attacks coming on and I get really scared and I've found that I can avoid them by immediately distracting myself. Is this a medical condition? Should I tell my parents (we're not that close so it would be awkward and they would probably say I'm being a drama queen and it would be weird. I once slipped in that I used to be depressed and they rolled their eyes)? Should I just wait this out like I did with depression? I don't know it seems that I don't really heal myself when I'm having symptoms of mental problems, it just turns to something else. When I was eight i starved my self,then attempted bulimia, and then just hated my self, then was happy, then became a control freak,then was happy, then was anti-social, then was depressed, then was happy, and now I'm 17 and this. Grr, I wish my brain would get it together, this is such a bother.

Confusion on How to loose fat on the Glutes (butt)?

You can't target a specific part of your body to lose fat on--basic aerobic exercises, like running and biking, will make you lose fat all over your body, but areas like the thighs and butt for women usually gather fat more than other parts. For men, it's the stomach area. As long as you eat right and regularly perform aerobic exercises, you should lose weight soon enough. Building muscles will make you firmer, and it shouldn't really make your butt bigger.

Is this mutation or genetic deformity?

my friend has at the bottom of her eyes greenish gray color.the rest of her eye is brown.and im wondering why is it like that?does anybody think they know why.(im just curious)

If a mutation affected nucleotides coding for nanos, what would occur?

There would be a problem in the process of oogenesis which might result in the non formation of ovum.

Why do I pass out after seeing blood?

Okay well yesterday I was at the doctors office with my girlfriend because her toenail got almost completely ripped off. I was fine when the doctor removed the nail but when she started working on it more I started to feel queezy, the next thing I knew was that I was laying face down on the tile floor. The same thing happened when I had an ingrown toenail remove a couple years back but those were the only times I have ever fainted. I am a frequent hunter and I play football so I am used to seeing blood but I dont know why I fainted from the toe operations, can someone tell me why am how I can overcome this? Thanks to anyone who can help.

Dante's Inferno Create own hell?

Hey guys. In English class we are doing a project where we create our own Dante's Inferno with modern characters in our own circles of sin. We have to create 9 levels of sin and they can't be from the book (For example, no circle titled "Hoarders and Wasters".) Then we have to put modern characters in those levels of sin. People we think belong there. I can not think of any good sins or people though! I was planning on putting assasinators in a circle, such as Marting Luther King Jr.'s assassin, and JFK's assassin. However, after that, I am stuck! Can you think of any good titles for circles or any good characters to put in circles? It doesn't have to be too serious. Like for example, kids in my class are making a circle called "Traitors" and putting Lebron James in it. i'm just saying, it doesn't have to be all serious ones. Can you think of any clever circles or characters to put in them? Thanks for any help!

I hate my life....i dunno what to do?

ii keep struggling with all the abuse mentaly and physical i went through as a kid i dont no why now it didnt used to bother me all these years i hate everything about myself my body my looks self worth i have none...i became a self harmer last year and even tho iv stopped since before xmas it really gets hard to find a reason why i stopped my mum thinks my sexuality is a phase or life choice and everytime i have somthing to say no one ever listens or they think im being dromatic i think it would be better off if i died or atleast went into hospital i know thats selfish but i dont no how to tell people that every time i wake up i feel like crying and i dont no why !!!! i dont even have a job im a waster full stop!

Issues with Firefox and Internet Explorer when using google search?

You have been infected with Malware and its redirecting your searches. Download and use Malware Bytes to clean your computer.

Everyone keeps screwing me over?

why is it that all my friends dont understand my problems? its like when i try and talk to them about my problems they just think they arent serious and give me no advice at all. they think im being a baby about things. and i have some serious problems its not minor. like life effecting problems. no one gets it cuz they dont know what it feels like! i just wish for once someone wouldnt stab me in the back and be a true friend. how can i overcome this? i cant wait for the day when they have a serious problem and i can laugh in their face like they did to me! i did noting to deserve this at all! ive been good to everyone who has come in my life. and instead i get a cheating bf and my family is dying. and lack of friends. :( i have no one to turn to..this is my last resort. :(

What is wrong with my boyfriend?

Google "panic attack" or "anxiety disorder" don't ask a bunch of unqualified strangers to explain this.

Missed appointment with dermatoligist?

my doctor referred me for a skin condition and i missed the appointment as i forgot the doctors had my old address so i was waiting for appointment to come through and it would of went my old address. it was through nhs choose and book which wont let me log in now as it says my appointment takes place in the past. do i have to visit my doctor again to get a new appointment? will he refer me again after ive missed it, I dont want to go back the docs incase he has a cob on with me fo missing it and thinks im a time waster but im not that type of person it was a genuine mistake but now im gutted because i really need to see a specialist as its getting worse

Does anyone know the name of this TV show?

It was fairly recent (in the last ~5 years). It is a US sci-fi/alien show. All I can remember is parts of the first episode. A large boat/ship had sent a mayday or something and the military (?) went to investigate. On the ship, they found the crew mostly dead- murdered or gone crazy (??). The soldiers/agents witnessed something alien in the sky, like a glowing ship thing from another dimension. And then later in the show, they had their blood tested and found blood mutations.

I don't want to hang out with friends?

About 3 months ago the group I hung out with separated, we did everything together, hang out at the mall, drive around doing stupid things, movies, etc. Since then I have friends I can hang out with but I'm not comfortable hangin out with them and usually make an excuse to avoid going out with them. Before also whenever I was bored I would play games with friends online but since the group split everyone is doing their own thing with other friends. Basically I need a time waster and advice if this behaviour is normal.

How do conjoined twins occur/form?

I found a random video about these two conjoined twins named Abby and Brittany Hensel. That got me to wondering...how exactly does this happen? Like, how do conjoined twins get that way in the womb? Is it some sort of mutation, or something? I'm not being rude. I was just wondering how exactly this happens, or what causes it?

Mini stroke, Anxiety or Mirgrane?

Hi im eighteen years old 38 weeks pregnant and yesturday night experienced somthing that was quite startling. Firstly to give you all the details, i was on the laptop for 4 hours with just about 3 toilet breaks witch were no time waster. After i finished what i was doing for those 4 hours i got up and not sure how i came to realise it, but realised my the outter right part of my eye was making it difficult to see as it felt like i was looking at the sun or somthing and had a sun spot so i couldnt read the last of sentences with my right eye. I do suffer from anxiety and started to panic like mad until i calmed myself down and went on facebook to try to distract my mind , as i was on face book i was still abit jittery and went to write a word that fair enough i hadnt used in a while but had completely forgottern how to spell! then i started to notice that i was very uncordinated and could get my tryping 100% and couldnt spell properly, i got up in a mad panic and tryed to read a magasine to test out my abilitys i was reading very slow and had to go back over words constantly as i at first diddnt understand the word or what i was reading. So i went and drew a bath to relax spent about 20mins in there and got out as i got out i tried to calm down i was very edgy as i diddnt kno what was happening, i sat down and my right hand just the fingers started to become numb and tingly one by one! and so did the right side of my lips! i paniced like crazy and my dad and i went to the hospital and on the way to the hospital i developed a very bad headache on my left side that went into my forehead...iwent over my symptoms and decided to send me to another hospital with a maternity ward just incase...i went there waited 3hours and decided to call it a night, i woke up feeling fine so thaught nothing of it...but now as i read im reading about minor strokes and migranes with stroke like symptoms etc and im starting to worry i have an appointment with my dr tommoro but im very scared...what is the most likely cause of these events witch by the way only lasted about 30mins in total except the migrane witch came on later and lasted until i slept it off all replys will be apreciated! thank u!

What was the function of pre-evolved wings?

When the first flying insects were evolving, what were the organs that eventually became flight wings used for? And how did that function help ensure the survival of the insects with pre-wing mutations?

My partners mother is friends with her x husband after 10 years?

I'm really pissed because after 10 year of being with my girlfriend I have just found out in the last week that her mother speaks to her x husband twice a week on the phone, and has his sister also goes round her mothers house as well sometimes. I am finding it hard to believe no one said a word to me about this 'friendship' for 10 years. it may be because her mother hates me as she use to tell my gf that I was waster and she should leave me and it's her way of getting at me, or perhaps it that her x husband way of trying to stay contacted to my gf though her mother, am I overreacting about this? is this completely normal behaviour??? or have they been laughing at me for 10 years???

My teacher can't handle us anymore, I'm afraid he might have a big problem, help :( ?

I have him alot, hes my science teacher and people are always naughty and noisy in his class like a boy in the class today was answering back and the teacher shouted at him to get outand the boy swore at him and threw his pen accross the classroom, we then had to copy out of text books cos he couldn't be bothered to finish the lesson, he just can't handle it anymore and neither can I cos there are too many timewasters and I really wnat to get involved and sort it out, ok I jsut have to say this next bit: I fancy the teacher ok, and i'm stating to feel really sorry for him and want to help, but I don't wnat to ignore it and let it carry on cos he is 25, quite new and may even end up quiting if this keeps happening, as it happens in nearly every lesson, but he can't take it, and neither can I :( please help, I want to help him ;( but I don't want to get involved too much cos it's his responsibilty to sort out the class and people in it which he isn't managign very well, but i mafraid he might just say i'm ok I can handle it, and he's not often in his classroom and has lessons and stuff so I dont no wat to do, i'm in year 7 bu the way :/ helpp (I fancy him so I find it hard to talk to him, thats why I feel really sorry for him and am too pissed off about the time wasters in the classes we have) At the moment he's been really moody, maybe because we are noisy and he's strict to us to make us learn a lesson, but I don't think he'd do that. i think it may be somethign personal, but I think he'd tell us taht something bad has happened and he's not in the mood for a few weeks, thats all but I tihnk it may be something really perosnal that is annoying him in some way, but I do not know this for sure, k help me please :)

If you bleed for five days after losing your virginity can you still get pregnant?

I lost my virginity last week, and bled constantly for five days after; we used a condom throughout most of the intercourse. But, I heard, if you bleed after losing your virginity (which is normal), you cannot become pregnant is this true? I have too heard so many different stories on this subject I am too worried as my period too was due the same week, is this (bleed) likely to be my period or due to losing my virginity? Or, even if this bleed, was my period could I still get pregnant? Please, only serious answers, and no time wasters. Does the bleeding stop/prevent pregnancy? Thanks.

How long do we stand for this?

In Britains society today we see ourselves being over run by taxes on absolutely any, and everything, and the soul cause of this is immigrants and benefit claimers. In total last year tax payers wasted 2.4 billion pounds of our money, that could be put to much better uses, on bailing out these low life wasters who 1.) come into our country with no intention of working, just to claim benefits and live frree of charge for the rest of their life, and 2.) accept that there are people inside our own communities that are happy to sit down all day claiming benefits instead of gettin up and sorting themselves out with a job. Taxes are being raped from my earnings to pay for these people; and has been taken from me for years previously, now more and more TAX IS being forcefully enamored from our pay docets to pay for useless things that enhance the lifestyles of these lowlifes. ITS TIME IT STOPPED, BORDERS NEED TO BE SHUT AND OUR COUNTRY NEEDS TO SORT ITSELF OUT BEFORE SORTING OTHERS!

Bicurious crush on a married straight girl?

So I have a crush on a married straight girl. There are many things keeping us apart such as her being straight, married, and our age difference. She is turning 29 and I am 17. We are what to I consider friends. She has given me a few hugs before and I consider hugs to be part of friendships. No one knows I am bicurious because it is against my religion to be bisexual. How can I overcome my feelings for her since it will never work? Any adivce?

Why do Aries turn cold after being hurt so many times?

This is easy. Because Aries, despite looking tough and stable, can be extremely fragile and unstable creatures. You guys also have a hard time forgiving. It has to do with how you see the world in simple terms. Pain = bad, therefore I must change myself to cope. Survivors are what you are. You change fast to adapt to your environment to help yourself get stronger. But sometimes you take it too far. My advice, learn to forgive and forget. For yourself, to get the burden off your back so you can be light again. Stop thinking of your problems and smile, no matter how hard

I have a puppy which now 6 mths old. how can i stop it licking all the time ?

if i or anybody tries to stroke it or even near it, it'll lick any bit, feet, hands, face. its becoming so distasteful and annoying that unless its licking can be stopped, i'll be forced to re-home it , which will break my heart. pleez. can anybody offer advice to help me overcome this problem

Wardrobe Malfunction help !?

You should of used your luggage to cover you and tell the dudes what happened and to stop touching you because you find it disrespectful if that happens tell someone that's a dude that can fight to beat them up or have a man to man convo lol, which is basically threatening

Dining during our Amtrak trip?

the food on the train is kinda expensive (ex. $10 breakfast, lunch $15 dinner) but the food is actually pretty good. I donno about the stations

My boyfriend broke up with me because of his mother...?

His mom was taking everything away and wouldn't give it back to him unless he broke up with me. Well, he still wants to secretly be together but I don't know if i should. It hurts just to even think about him. We're ages 17. I've met her a few times and I was nothing but polite but she was standoffish to me. She won't even let him go to parties because she thinks I might be there. He says that she thinks he's too young should postpone "time wasters" like girls until after college and not high school hussies( how rude !). I don't handle controversy and drama really well and I don't know what to do. She won't let him call or email me anymore...He was my first boyfriend. I feel like I am a responsible teenager and I don't let my grades slip and I still have my own life ( I'm a cheerleader). Should I stay with him or just move on?

Is he interested in me & was he flirting? 19yo/25yo?

Hi chrome, what I don't understand is why you're asking this question, when you've put a block on anything more than friends. But if you want to go through with this charade I'll do my best. If he teases you he likes you, I don't know how much he likes you, but he does. Showing him a photo of your legs, what did you expect, he wouldn't be interested in a massive cut. He'd be interested in your legs, and I can understand that, because I a legman as well. Then we come to Facebook, you have to understand although you regard him as nothing more than a friend. That doesn't stop him from getting on Facebook with you, because he has feelings for you. His final response was to try and see if he could change your mind about him on Facebook. That is basically how I see it. The guy likes you, so be a good friend to him anyway. I wish you happiness.

Crush on an older married girl?

So I have a crush on a married straight girl. There are many things keeping us apart such as her being straight, married, and our age difference. She is turning 29 and I am 17. We are what to I consider friends. She has given me a few hugs before and I consider hugs to be part of friendships. No one knows I am bicurious because it is against my religion to be bisexual. How can I overcome my feelings for her since it will never work? Any adivce?

Is Culinary school or any other school that will get me the degree worth it?

Make sure which ever school you decide on that it is accredited, culinary or otherwise. Best wishes.

I have short temper,,,,,?

just go test out your short temper in the hood, or infront of some juice monkies and after they beat the shyt out of you, youll prob even out

My ex husband his thoughts in my mind?

I married a guy who rather we dovorced 3 months after marriage for reasons that i am not very clear Now what has happend is that I married another guy after that Though we are happy and have regular sex the problem is that whenever we have sex I think of my first husband as I feel he was much better in sex than this guy How do I overcome this feeling how do I get this guy out of my mind There are any medications or treatment for this ? Please advice me I will be very greatful if some oen cna help me out in this istuation sir

What do i do about this boy?

i have a friend who is a boy (i am a boy and gay) that i really like. we've been friends for about two years and last year i told him that i liked him. he's my closest guy friend and we talk pretty much everyday. he has stated multiple times that he is 100% straight and that he doesn't have feelings for me the way i do for him. yet he tells me that he loves me all of the time. im not looking to convert him or to make him like me but i'm looking for a way to be his friend and not have such strong feelings for him. he is a really good friend and i want to continue to be friends but it is quite hard with all of my feelings that i have for him. we have decided to stop talking for a certain amount of time in the past to help me to overcome my feelings for him and to try to suppress my feelings for him but it has not worked. what do i do?

How do we know that apes came first, maybe apes came from humans?

The fossil record. There are lots of fossils of nonhuman apes that are older than any fossils of humans.

How come I can't get over and stop being sad that my closest friend who is a girl got married?

I have a friend that I've known for about 5 years and I used to have a crush on her but it faded away about a year and a half ago. Then today I saw her uncle at his sandwich shop and he told me that she got married and I did feel a little sad and disappointed. I lost contact with her about 6 months ago after she changed her number and never told me her new number. She is only 19 and she is married and I'm 20 and never had a girlfriend because I cannot get a girlfriend. What can I do to overcome this ??? It's not an extreme sadness that is driving me to extreme depression but it does make me feel a little depressed. I just lost a close friend because she is married now and also lost contact with her as well. Her uncle did not tell me her new number, it seems like he didn't want me to know it.

Anxiety ADHD Overwhelmed?

So tired, went to bed at 8:30, woke up every couple of hours and read to fall asleep. Up at @ 7:30 AM achey and tired. Dranke 2 double lattes, ate banana and rye with cheese. Overcome with anxiety, so went for a short walk. When I got home, the anxiety and grief were even more pronounced. When I exercise, I stop and just cry. If I go to yoga or guided prayer, I often have spontaneous tears. I hate this lifestyle. I avoid exercise, and can't understand the grief anxiety when I DO exercise. This is decades old. How to change? Trying harder--performance (climb mountains, XC, overtime working hours, counseling) don't make me successful or peaceful. Went off ADHD meds about 2 months ago, after about 18 months of trying different combinations...I'm pooped, walking in grief, staving (barely) off desperate. Why do I just stop and cry in the middle of a hike or jog (I cannot go on without just a total breakdown). Alone I can just cry, with friends, I have to stifle this. What will help ME be at peace with ME? Why do I just break down, even during EXERCISE?

Why do teenagers/people cut their skin?

It's hard to explain, you really wouldn't understand unless you've done it or had the urge to do it yourself. Like with bulimia throwing up relieves your stress and makes you feel good. It's hard to explain, it just feels better.

Tokamak for sale, any body?

Excellent condition, 1 previous European owner. Never even achieved ignition, reluctant sale due to space restrictions and to be honest, I'm thinking of getting An ICF unit. No time wasters please, only reasonable offers considered in the region of �2000. Ta.

Evolutionists, quick question for you?

Can you give an example of a genetic mutation or an evolutionary process which can be seen to increase the information in the genome? Links are appreciated. I don't really trust trolls.

Concerning Eternal Life: Medawar's Theory states that we age because...?

Yes in theory - but wouldn't there also be people out there with the perfect genes who wouldn't die? Like there is the group of people passing down the semi-lethal older age genes that make them deteriorate and die but then doesn't it also follow that on the other side of the coin is the few select people with "pure" genes that wouldn't pass it down and live forever? Like the theory in Unbreakable where the one guy has glass bones and the other guy never gets sick or hurt to compensate? Is there a possibility that there are a select few people out there who will live forever with perfect genes and live in seclusion because of their difference?

How should I move on or can I?

Delete all their pictures, messages, trash their gifts etc basically get rid of everything that reminds you of them, I been turlough that many times, and for the molest part I suggest you see a therapist

How come I can't get over and stop being sad that my closest friend who is a girl got married?

I have a friend that I've known for about 5 years and I used to have a crush on her but it faded away about a year and a half ago. Then today I saw her uncle at his sandwich shop and he told me that she got married and I did feel a little sad and disappointed. I lost contact with her about 6 months ago after she changed her number and never told me her new number. She is only 19 and she is married and I'm 20 and never had a girlfriend because I cannot get a girlfriend. What can I do to overcome this ??? It's not an extreme sadness that is driving me to extreme depression but it does make me feel a little depressed. I just lost a close friend because she is married now and also lost contact with her as well. Her uncle did not tell me her new number, it seems like he didn't want me to know it.

Atheists if evolution is based on species survival of the fittest and adaptation, ,?

Evolution is NOT based on survival of the fittest. That idea, proposed by Darwin, is just one of the mechanisms by which evolution works. There are several others.

What's a good rapper/alter-ego name for me?

my name is Kasey-lee, people just call me kasey. i want a cool rap name that makes a statement but fits still. I am a girl that loves eminem (and dont waster your time saying 'a girl that likes Eminem? i bet you only know his singles" that gets annoying. i actually have all of his CDs so don't bother). so names like Eminem or Slim Shady, (not copying or imitating.) thanks for the help! i love the color pink and i love rap.

Literacy: Disappearing?

I seem to be living in a place where literacy is disappearing around me. People don't know what word means what, there's no longer such as thing as punctuation or grammar, may I simply ask: What the hell? It's been taught that adults are the ones who are supposed to be superior and 'right', yet I find myself correcting their speech and writing because they don't know the difference between 'except' and 'accept.' Teens and the young can barely write, and we've evolved 'Ghetto Speak' to a point it's overcoming language rather than being it's own dialect. (I live in FL. Commenting on America. I know other places are literate.) Whether or not I have the right definition of 'Literate', I still expect an answer regarding what I've typed here. Do not reply if you aren't going to give me a serious answer, otherwise you will be reported and your comment will be removed.

Why do some UK retailers play awful music in their stores?

Is it to goad customers into making impulse purchases? Or does it discourage "time wasters" from" loitering? Or is there some other reason? Whatever it's purpose it deters me from even entering those stores I know about. I can't think of a logical reason, yet so many of them do it that it must help profits.

How does this writing strike you?

I gotta tell you bro, if I was in this situation, I would not take the time to write 12 sentences about the glass in my hands.

Which firmware for the WRT54G gives me the most access control?

You can use the function in most common router to block domains is real easy what router do you have?

Drugs and relationships?

So I need some help, to put it into perspective I am a very good student going to a very college but I am still not socially awkward. When it comes to drugs and alcohol, however, I get really uncomfortable. Maybe it was my upbringing (blame both parents in medicine) or its just a mindset that I have developed on my own but I cannot overcome this huge discomfort. My girlfriend (who I love more than anything) does occasional "soft" drugs but plans later to do the crazier stuff. I don't know what to do to overcome my discomfort because I don't want to be the buzz kill for my girlfriend.....

Why don't I like eating around my family?

Idk why? I was a very picky eater as a kid. I'm not bad now I mean i have maybe a little more dislikes then the average person but other then that I eat everything in sight! But around my family I just do not feel like eating what so ever! I was raised to eat whenever whatever no dinner time and no body made dinner. Now we started and I'm not used to it! and they make the same things over and over! steak. chicken noodle soup. thats it. I dont want it. Also they always treat me like a kid. They think oh the only things i eat are chicken fingers and this. And when I go to resturants they get me the kiddie menu. Idk why! Im 16! almost 17! I just dont even say anything anymore! but around my girlfriends parents and friends I devour everything in sight! I eat everything! around my family I'm treated like a child and they call me a picky eater and everything. Around friends I'm called a human garbage disposal. LIke tonight for example. I was at the gym and my dad made steak at 6 i wouldnt be home till 7. I didnt want it cause i dont like cold steak i like it fresh ya know? Then they start calling me a food waster and stuff. But yet they all say they wont eat it! So why am I like this?

My right bicep is alot smaller then the left bicep?

my right bicep is alot smaller than my left people describe it as an awkard muscle or abnormal. my left one is nice and big. ik people say the right one if your a righty is naturally stronger so its gonna be smaller but this is different. I have controll over a muscle in between the bicep and tricep in my right arm and not my left (i think its like if how you can put right/left eyebrow up and the other down but not vice versa so you have control of an extra muscle in your right/left eyebrow) i think its the brachilais part of the bicep or around there. so i think theyre smaler because i use that other muscle before i use my main bicep part. so any way i can even it out or if this is some mutation or whatever?

How can I overcome this depression?

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Alternatives to freezing? (dental and hospital)?

I have had a bad experience with a freezing agent just recently. I was at the dentist and they gave me the shot which was fine and it didn't hurt or anything because I had a numbing gel on my gums but what happen after wards was what got me worried about the next time that I might possibly have to get a filling. I was overcome with a mass wave of nausea and cold sweat also my arms and legs felt very limp. I had a similar experience 2 years ago when I had to have an abscess drained and they gave me a local anesthetic and I became nauseous. What can I do? I hate nausea with a burning passion of hatred it just makes me feel horrible to the point of it almost being a phobia (which it isn't.)

Why do I never want to be myself?

I don't lack confidence, I don't think I'm ugly. I just don't know what it is. Whenever I may watch evan a TV programme and see somebody that has achieved or seems to have a great life and I get depressed and sad, and just want to be them. How can I stop this? Because it really is just horrible being depressed. Any help would be nice. No time wasters please:)

Brain Zaps (DiscontinuationSyndrome)?

I decided to cease my treatment for bipolar of escitalopram and sodium valproate three weeks ago due to undesirable side effects under the supervision of my gp. I have since been experiencing 'brain zaps' which cause me to feel nauseous and lightheaded frequently through the day, with no signs of easing in severity. My doctor is aware of this condition and assures me that time will take care of this symptom. He is, however, unable to give me a time frame, or indications of what I can do to ease my distress in the meantime. I am hoping to hear from others who have had a similiar experience with discontinuation syndrome to gain some insight into what I can expect. Haters and time wasters will be reported.

Dante's Inferno and music ties. PLEASE HELP?!?

I have to do a 'model' of Hell and I can't figure out who to put in a few of the levels. I've decided to do mine all based on music and songs, but seeing as I don't listen to EVERY genre, I need some help. I need 2 examples for Gluttons and 2 for Hoarders and Wasters. For some reason, I think the answers might be rap songs, but I'd greatly appreciate your help. =]

I have an Eating Disorder. Urgent help for therapy?

How are you paying for a therapist if you can't afford a book? I guess you should tell your therapist that you can't afford it and tell her your mom doesn't know. I 100% guarantee you she will STRONGLY try to persuade you into telling your parents about your eating disorder.. trust me I know, I've had one, gone to therapy, had the same thing happen to me.

Random questions to Atheist and evolutionist?

GIVE ME SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE FOR CREATIONISM AND THE ORIGINAL PIECES OF PAPER GENESIS WAS WRITTEN ON.

My mental stability is absolutely deteriorating. What can I do?

I used to get bullied for being fat/gay but then i droped the weighto live in a small town to idk you may be bi. But if you want someone to talk to you can email if you want

Why is Scotland trying to have independence?

Scottish people don't want independence. The polls show that people are in favor of a referendum on independence but that does not mean they will vote yes to it. It would just be nice to be granted the right to decide whether we want to or not. The SNP victory on thursday does not mean that Scotland want independence, it is more likely that the SNP won by a landslide due to a combination of fed up liberal democrat/ labour supporters voting for them instead plus others seeing how well the SNP did in a minority government for the past 4 years. They may not want independence but the SNP have done a good job in government which gives them every right to a 2nd term in Holyrood.

How can I not be so nervous when people stare at me?

I get so nervous & my eyes get twitchy if somebody stares at me for a long period of time.. how can I overcome this? :D

What are your thoughts on my Cover letter?

Many employers don't read the cover letter but it is alright to send it. This is a good one but I suggest you shorten it some. Also make entire thing pretty short. (Not much over a page)

How do I overcome my disgust for fat girls?

Hi, I'm an 18 year old guy. Now after reading the question your probably thinking I'm a jerk. But I'm not really a bad guy. Its just that when I see girls that are over normal size, I think *eww. she's ugly*. I admit I'm not that handsome, just average. But I'm in really good shape since I run cross country. I train regularly and take care of myself. This bad way of thinking has been with me, I think since I was 12 or 13 and I've never told anyone about it. I've kept it all in my mind. I feel bad about myself. I know they're all human beings and that no ones perfect. And it makes me sad that I can't see the beauty in them. I know a lot of them have hormonal issues and we can't really blame them for who they are. I'm still a virgin and I plan to save for marriage. I believe in one-time commitment. I'm afraid that this disorder in me might persist. Then if I marry a fat woman (or if she gets fat) I'll start feeling disgusted and all the attraction will go. How do I overcome this?

Eight Trials of Retribution?

Our friend Solomon is need of eight trials of retribution so he may atone for his crimes. As his friends we need to determine eight trials for him to overcome in order to reclaim his pride. Please aide us in the process, friends.

What is typhoid? how can we overcome it.?

what is typhoid . how one get caught by this disease? Is this an infectious disease. How can we overcome typhoid. what are the precautions to be taken .

Please help, I feel so lonely :\?

I understand that its hard but try not to internalise all your worries so that you build it up into something its not. Try to join a group in something that you are interested in, and instead of focussing all your worries, enjoy the activity that you do. Social skills will come in time, but you need to get out and do something that makes you happy. Don't worry so much and live your life! Good luck!

Would you respect someone more bc they've overcome the odds?

It really depends. Like for example if someone came from a bad environment and bad financial situation and worked their wa through college then yes I would respect them highly because this shows that they are hardworking and determined to accomplish their dreams. But if a person overcame the odds as in overcame cancer then I mainly contribute this is due to the doctors and medications they took so I would have more respect for the college person than the cancer person. I hope that makes sense.

Is It Normal To Become Angry, Bitter And Resentful Toward People When Sales Are Down?

I sell items that range from several hundred to several thousands of dollars. Before this recession, I was very successful and lived somewhat of a lavish lifestyle on my commissions alone in addition to my annual salary. Now not only have I noticed a drop in my sales because it seems no one has any money that they are willing to spend. But also an increase in non customers/time wasters who have nothing better to do than come into the store and ask questions about a product that they either can’t afford and/or have no intention of buying. I have started to become angry, bitter and resentful toward these people for wasting my time and not putting any money in my pocket. People have told me to “let it go” and brought up that everyone is struggling and have families to support and take care of, but what people don’t seem to understand is that those of us who work in sales also have expenses and people who depend on us.